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Kristi Vaughan, William Pitt Sotheby's Int'l
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Your Place in the World

by Kristi Vaughan 03/11/2019

Ego, Latin for “I,” in other words, self. The part that makes up your psyche, or how you see yourself. It is that sense of who you are that you carry through your life. History has long wondered if ego is an ingrained part of your DNA; something you are born with. There is a general regard today; however that your environment has a tremendous amount of influence on your self-image or self-esteem. What you think of yourself and how you relate to the world around you, have everything to do with your ego. 

Your Place in This World

The environment you lived in while you were young, dependent on others to provide for you the basics for a living was not in your control. The home you lived in, the clothes you wore and even the school and activities you were involved in were, for the most part, dictated to you. Often those circumstances provided you with a sense of who was, good or bad. You may have developed a healthy self-image that afforded you the skills and abilities to take on challenges and problem solve with little effort. Or you may have experienced adverse situations that left you with a feeling of lack and insecurities. What you carry into your life as an adult can significantly influence your life decisions. 

Carve Out Your Own Place

As you move out into the world and more of your decisions rest only on you to make, the crossroads of how you see yourself appears. Here is where you choose to allow your current self-image to continue to be shaped and molded by your past. Or, you can recognize the opportunity to become the most significant influence in your own life. Who you surround yourself with can help or hurt you in this process. Be aware of how others influence your self-esteem. What you watch and listen to has a tremendous effect on how you process information, form opinions and express emotions. As the old computer saying goes “garbage in, garbage out.” You determine what’s garbage, based on what outcome you desire. You want a healthy, positive ego; then be aware of what gives you positive mental information, thoughts, and emotions. 

This week make a point to spend some time with someone who brings out the best of you

About the Author

Author
Kristi Vaughan
For all of the disruption in the real estate industry, one critical aspect will never change -- the need for a good, solid real estate agent with truly local knowledge who puts your interests first. Kristi is one of those agents. A real estate agent since early 2005, Kristi has built her business with the idea that if she serves her clients well, success will naturally follow. And it has. What this means for you is that Kristi is on top of it, whether it’s getting you into the newest homes to hit the market, knowing the staging and marketing trends to help show your home in the best light or keeping tabs on the myriad details of an individual transaction. If something needs doing to help you meet your real estate goals, Kristi is giving it her full personal attention. Aided, of course, by today’s technologies. “As the mother of millennials and a homeowner of a certain age myself, I have a sensitivity and respect for the needs of first-time homebuyers, down-sizing sellers and everyone in between,” says Kristi, adding, “I measure my success not by numbers and awards but by the satisfaction of my clients.” A top producer, Kristi has won numerous Bronze, Silver and Gold Awards and has been recognized for many years by Connecticut Magazine’s Five Star Program for excellent customer service. In addition to being a member of the National Association of Realtors, Connecticut Association of Realtors and Ridgefield Board of Realtors, Kristi is a Senior Real Estate Specialist, Accredited Buyer Representative and is e-Pro certified. She is fully trained and experienced in working with relocation clients from near and far. Give her a call.